The Real Reason Your Income Is Stuck

What if I told you that there was something that was capping your income, exactly where it is today, or as an average of where it's always been? Whether that's in working for somebody else, or if you have your own business particularly, there's a series of things that is going on in our body, our energy, our mind, that all kind of joins together to create what we call an income setpoint.

Over the next few weeks, I'm going to be talking to you about this specifically, because what I see around me is a lot of discomfort around money, and fear of there not being enough.

It can be really hard to trust that there's enough for you and for everybody else, and that the money's coming, when you're in that place where it just doesn't feel safe, like you don't have enough.

Today I'm revealing the real reason your income is stuck where it is. Our income is a very specific type of money and it's all about our value and worth in the world, or should I say perceived value, and worth in the world.

When we look at our upbringing, no matter who you lived with, no matter who your main caregiver was, they will have had thoughts, feelings and behaviors around money, which they will have got from their caregivers and their caregivers and their caregivers, and so on and so forth, back through time.

Now, particularly in the last sort of three or four generations, there was a lot of fear generally around money that that it wasn't there wasn't enough. There was a big divide between us and them, the working class and the other classes, and that it had to be really hard that you had to work hard to earn it, and you couldn't earn from something that wasn't a proper job. Our grandparents, and great grandparents, were taught that you had to work hard for your money.

So you are carrying around generational money programming, that tells you that you're only worth a certain amount, and that this family doesn't earn more than x amount. And that if you do, you are being too big for your boots, or that if you try to make a business out of your gift, or your coaching / healing services, then that's somehow wrong. Because it's not a real job, it's not tangible, you're not trading your time for money.

There's an invisible rule that you have to work really hard for any money that you do get, to almost to prove that you're worth it. Outwardly, so that other people see you working hard - first in, last out corporate hustle culture. We've we've probably all seen it.

What's going on in your money is that between the ages of nought to seven or eight years old, you will you will have heard, seen and felt and experienced your caregivers' energy around money.

You will have seen and heard how they act and what they say when they're handling money, bills and finances, and you will have felt the energy in the room. Now, that might have meant that they were talking about it all the time but there was arguments. It might have meant meant that they never talked about it at all, and you didn't because it was a taboo subject doesn't matter. And it might have been somewhere in between.

If there was more abundance than lack great stuff, and there may still have been some kind of a phrase or an attitude that your parents would have said like, "Oh, it's okay for them", or "we'll never be like them" or similar. In the next few weeks or so we're going to fish around for that and I'm going to give you a few hints and tips.

Including an invite to a very powerful four week masterclass created to help you to feel more empowered around money - to earn more, to save more to clear off debt, and to cut those toxic ties to people who owe you money etc. I want you to feel empowered around money.

For now, I just want you to know that when you think about your money, there's usually three things going on. There's the thoughts and feelings in your head, the things you're saying to yourself like "I'll never be rich because..." or "I'll never get rid of this debt because...." "I'm so disappointed in myself", "I should be doing better by now". Whatever that is for you.

Then you've got the emotions behind it. So, when you look at your bank account, when you look at your income, what's the first emotion that comes to mind? What comes up will be very telling, because it tells you what your nervous system is wired to run with, every time you think about the amount of money you do bring in, or about the amount of money you'd like to bring in, you go straight into that emotion. And with all the will in the world, if it's not a nice one, you're not going to run towards it.

So it stands to reason that you're not going to put all your efforts into bringing more money in, because it triggers that emotion.

The third aspect is the connected trauma. Somewhere along the line between zero and eight years old, there will be something that you have witnessed, seen, heard, felt sensed whatever, experienced in some way around money, and how it happens in your family; what you're allowed to have, and how hard it has to be.

That memory will leave you feeling either sad, or like there's been a big loss, really disappointed, guilty, or any number of lower vibrational emotions. It doesn't necessarily have had to have been about money either. You could have had a loss of a parent or a grandparent that left you so sad, and with such a feeling of loss that it stayed with you.

This is the key aspect, because the real reason why your income is stuck where it is, is that we have certain thoughts, feelings and experiences and connected trauma that get wired into our nervous system. And we manifest our money to match that feeling, because then we feel safe.

I know, right? It's, it's kind of messed up in a way. But the amygdala is always looking for an energetic emotional match - do I feel safe? Does this emotion feel safe to me, even if it's horrible.

So any time we deal with money, not only do we feel certain emotions that have been hard wired into our nervous system, we tell ourselves certain things about it and we remember things that happened in the past that reinforce that negative emotion......

And we manifest our money to match those emotions, so that we feel safe.

Okay, so tune in to the next video, which is going to show you where all your programming came from and how that impacted you, and what you're carrying forward as a result.

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Categories: : Business Growth, Coaching, Emotional Health, Energy Work